'I'm currently single, but when I'm with someone, I like to sneak little notes in his pocket before he heads off to work, sweet nothings or sexy suggestions he can look forward to later. I also give him plenty of compliments and send him sexy texts throughout the day. On game day, I make sure he's got his favorite refreshments and help cheer on his favorite team.' The fact that Bobbi Shay, a 58-year-old divorcee and mom from Canada (she lives in California) doesn't have a boyfriend does not reflect well upon the men of the world.